You know if you're being deceptive or not.
33 Online Dating Tips for Men (from Women)
If you think it's hard, you're not alone. How useful is that? If we went on a date, where would we go, and why didn't you just let me pay for your meal? Are you busy right now? We both find each other attractive. It'll make her feel comfortable and she'll more likely show up. The culture around dating from a female perspective can be terrifying.